In 2006 I had surgery on both my hips because of extremely
painful arthritis. I had suffered severe pain for several years and the
surgical procedure (hip resurfacing) was very successful—and I’ve not had any
hip pain since that time!
Not long after the surgery one of Carol’s sisters, Barb
Mackery, came to visit us. As she came through the front door I went to greet
her. Barb smiled as she saw me walking and said, “David, you are taller!” I had
some kind of smart response about having always been six feet three inches tall
and the conversation passed on.
We had a delightful visit with Barb but I was left with a
nagging question, “Whatever did she mean when she said I was taller; how could
that possibly be?” Over the next couple of days I thought about this and then
suddenly the light went on. (Canadians are a little slow this way. Being raised
in the north where it’s cold causes the electricity to flow a little slower and
therefore the lights go on a little more slowly . . . but they do come on!)
I realized that in order to minimize the pain in my hips and
back I had changed my posture. The most comfortable position I could find was
being slightly stooped. But with the pain gone, I no longer needed to bend
over—and I could stand at full stature.
And then something else hit me full force. Most of the pain
we experience in life has little or nothing to do with aches and agony in our
body but more to do with those things that hurt our “inner man.” The the pain
of a broken relationship; the pain of an unrealized dream; the pain of failure;
the pain of the death of a loved one—the list could go on and on. The fact is
that we all suffer pain, most of which has no connection to a physical cause.
My arthritis had caused me to try to find a posture that
minimized the pain. I didn’t realize I was adopting a modified position, but I
was.
Understanding this caused another question to arise. If
physical pain caused me to live my life at less than full stature, what does
the “pain in the rest of life” do to me? Is it possible that I am living life
spiritually at less than full stature because of some of the disappointments
and hurts of the past?
It is not God’s desire or design for us to live in an
accommodating position. He wants us to be mature and complete. He wants us to
be as tall as we are supposed to be!
Some people try to accommodate the pain of life by numbing
it out through the use of drugs and/or alcohol. Chemicals sometimes simply mask
the pain and may actually cause the user to hurt himself more severely as he
acts as though he has no pain, that nothing is hurting. But actually the cause
of the pain is still there and the user hurts himself, not realizing what is
happening.
So what is the answer to the “pains” of life? I wish I could
give you a neat “packaged” answer but I can’t.
I do know a couple of things about pain, about the Word of
God, and God’s desire for His people to stand tall in maturity and freedom:
1.
Pain gets our attention and assists us in knowing that
a problem exists and that we need help. Pain
will either push us away from God or cause us to draw close to Him, but the
choice is ours.
“Before I was afflicted I went astray, but now Your word do
I keep [hearing, receiving, loving, and obeying it]” (Psalm
119:67, Amplified Bible).
2.
Pain is a teacher and to start with, it will teach us
patience and obedience, if we will let it.
“Knowing that
pressure and affliction and hardship produce patient and unswerving endurance” (Romans
5:3, Amplified).
“He
learned obedience through what He suffered" (Hebrews 5:8).
3.
The Lord wants you to stand tall and strong in Him. He
wants to set you free from anything that is crippling your spirit.
“One Sabbath day as Jesus
was teaching in a synagogue, He saw a woman who had been crippled by an
evil spirit. She had been bent double for eighteen years and was unable to
stand up straight. When Jesus saw her, He called her over and
said, ‘Dear woman, you are healed of your sickness!’ Then He touched her, and
instantly she could stand straight. How she praised God!” (Luke 13:10-13, NLT).
Don’t accommodate the pain. Let the Lord heal you and set
you free!